09-26-25

 Life Lessons

      Life lessons that I have learned are mostly through harsh experiences and mistakes that I have made.These experiences like knowing how to control my-self,how to control my  mouth,and how to become more social when I’m in a new environment.These lessons will follow me through the rest of my life.These lessons have taught me that what makes me stronger is what I have lived.The experiences that I have lived throughout my life,are for me to laugh at them and to share with others to laugh as well with me or to give advice to others. 

One way I learned from my mistakes is when I started working with this lady named Rosa . At the beginning everything was okay but after some time she started to act really annoying towards me. It got to the point where she used to tell me to do something and I would do it when would tell me that it was wrong and that wasn’t what she asked for,and then would make do it all over again which used to make me unuseful .Rosa would make add more details to things that were not necessary at all,and she would.Her actions made me get angry at her and make the environment feel tense every time  used to go to work.The time when she make do a same work over and over again saying that it was still wrong,taught me to to know how to control myself and to not stay in a place where my work is not appreciated.After this moment I learned how to react when someone does something disrespectful or something that I don’t like. 

Another way that I learned is when in my sophomore year I had a friend named Elizabeth and she told me that she had a crush on a guy,and she only told me and she said “Don’t tell anybody that I think this guy is cute”. I was keeping the secret for a long time,but then one time I was with my group of friends and we were talking and laughing,the guy who Elizabeth had a crush walked behind me and  and I said to Elizabeth “come sit next to me”,and then I looked at the guy.Then I knew that I messed everything up with her,after I realized that I messed everything up I apologized to Elizabeth right away,Elizabeth stood up and left the place for  a moment.I felt really bad because she trusted me with her secret and I come and messed up everything.After a while I go and approached her and I apologized to her again,Elizabeth told me it’s okay that she forgives me but told me not to do it again.After that moment I learned how to watch my mouth and to think before speaking.Since that day I always watch my mouth before speaking and think about the reaction of other people if I say something. 

Another way in which I learn is when in my freshman year of high school I got accepted into a charter school in which none of my friends got accepted to and I also didn’t know anybody there.The first two weeks we really bad,the cafeteria was really small and the lunch tables were occupied because there were a lot of students in that small cafeteria. In the table that I used to seat it was empty,everyone else were with their friends,but me.This situation made feel really sad because I was the only only seated by herself in the entire cafeteria.After one week a girl came towards me and introduced me to her friends,and told me that I could seat with them whenever I wanted to. At first this situation made me not want to go to school anymore. After this situation in school I learned that talking to people first is not bad at all,and that it’s not that bad to make the first move in a new environment. 

All these experiences and mistakes that I have made throughout my life have taught me that in my life I’ll have thousands of good and bad experiences and that the only important thing is to live and learn from them.Controlling myself,watching my mouth,learning how to make the first move,are life lessons that will be always following me until my last breath.Life lessons are for me to laugh at them and to share it with others,and also to help and give advice to people from my own experience.